Looking at various posts in sexuality, I have noticed how people judge.

You like beast = you're a fucking freak!
You (m) like cock = you're gay/a faggot!
You like pissing = *you're a dirty fuck!
You like scat = *see above
You like GH's = You make me puke!

The above is just how I see it. To me, fantasy, role play or even just asking the question is harmless and as such, people shouldn't be ripped a new arsehole for what they post. I wouldn't come on here looking for advice, but that's because of how people react and possibly I have at least some common sense.

Why do you think there's is no decent discussion going on in Sexuality?

 

What's GH?


We judge because we want to assure ourselves that we are better than others. That's what I think, anyways.

Has anyone noticed that there are two beast films on the front page today? One involving a dead octopus and the other involving some pigs? Has this site forgotten it's rules?

 

Glory Holes...

Yeh, I noticed that, but I didn't look as I thought they were 'joke' vids...*honest*

 

Considering the open-mindedness of this site, many posters appear to be quite conservative when it comes to sex. We're supposed to be able to share ideas here, not be afraid of getting ripped a new asshole for asking a question.

 

Oh, glory holes...

I don't see how anyone would ever want to use one. For one thing, you don't know the gender of the person servicing you (I understand they are popular with the gays, though.), and for another, you don't know the sexual history of the person servicing you.

And what's the guarantee that the hole isn't rigged with a mousetrap or something like that?

Those gloryhole movies that're done by the blacks on blonde's people are pretty hot though.

 

First off, yeah, I noticed that too. I was surprised.

And Suze, I think people just can't handle any thing they don't understand. It's hard to understand what people can see in extreme versions of sexuality and it can be hard to explain why they're enjoyable. It's all part of the mainstream society. Every one wants to normal so no one wants to be open minded.

If more people opened their minds up to new possibilities they'd just realize how much pleasure in the world there is to find, but that's just asking the world for miracles.

 

Yes, exactly! Many are very conservative or do you think they are embarassed and ashamed by their own desires? Therefore, anyone who likes something a little different must be ripped to pieces.

I think that's more likely to be the case.

 

But that's my point. Many talk of a fantasy. They don't mean they are going straight out to do it. If they are asking for advice, yours is a good post. I'm talking about members banging on about him being an idiot for even thinking about it...

 

Hm... I think you may be onto something, Suze... I know I have a certain sexual thing I like that I've only shared with a few people. None of them thought it was strange, but I still don't want to share it with everyone here.

 

People are unable to confront the reality of mankind's craven desires. With intelligences come imagination, and with imagination comes depravity.

Everyone likes to think they are a little less depraved than their neighbour.

 

Yes, I wouldn't share the smell of my fart with 99.99% of the members on here!

Wow, I knew I was intelligent!

 

Hey, I like pissing. It relieves my bladder and feels extremely good after, for some or other reason, I had to keep it in for a longer period

Depravity is just another point-of-view, borne from the wrong set of morals. If in a country you've got one extreme, there's bound to be another, to keep the balance. The USA was founded by some Dutch ultra religious folk, but it also has the largest porn industry in the world. Vatican City is the holy place for catholics, but Italy has the most porn TV stations per inhabitant in the world. Quid pro quo, or better, Ying and Yang.

 

Judgement (in the sense you seem to mean it) is an extension of our own insecurity - the things we're most insecure about tend to cause the quickest and most nasty judgmental reaction. Dragging those things up out of the amygdala and into the frontal lobe is long, hard work - it's much easier for most folk to just react and lash out.

As for "decent" discussion, there is so much great comedic material in the sexuality section I'd never want it to change :excited:

 

Why not???

 

I happen to look quite dashing in a white wig!!

 

because the left hates the right and vice versa...

 

yikes - does the drapery match the carpet?!??

 

Why not, what? Speak up!

 

did you even read the OP, you myopic puritan? :lol:

 

Judge!!!